Sexual Health and Safer Sex
- There are many benefits to promoting your sexual health that range from increased pleasure to a reduced risk of getting a sexually transmitted infection
- Sexuality is complex and is influenced by a variety of factors that include biological, psychological, social, economic, political, cultural, legal, historical and religious factors
- There are numerous ways to reduce the risk of getting or spreading a sexually transmitted infection that include using condoms, negotiating sexual activities, getting tested, and limiting your number of sexual partners.
- Using condoms properly and regularly is the only form of contraception that also reduces the risk of getting or spreading a sexually transmitted infection
- Being well informed is vital to promoting your sexual health; therefore, consult reliable sources of information.
Promoting your sexual health is one of the most important things you can do to enhance and maintain your overall health.
This section of our website provides basic information on sexual health and sexuality. For additional information you can follow the links as well as consult the "For Those Who Want to Know More" section below.
Sexuality is complex. Therefore, it is understandable that there is no agreed upon definition of the term. None-the-less, the World Health Organization has provided a working definition of sexuality, which states that:
"Sexuality is a central aspect of being human throughout life and encompasses:
Sexuality is experienced and expressed in:
While sexuality can include all of these dimensions, not all of them are always experienced or expressed.
Sexuality is influenced by the interaction of:
- and spiritual factors"
As with the definition of sexuality, there is no agreed upon definition of sexual health. However, the World Health Organization has developed a working definition of "sexual health" that states that it is:
“…a state of physical, emotional, mental and social well-being in relation to sexuality; it is not merely the absence of disease, dysfunction or infirmity. Sexual health requires a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. For sexual health to be attained and maintained, the sexual rights of all persons must be respected, protected and fulfilled.”
Enhancing ones sexual health and expressing ones sexuality in a healthful way is associated with a number of benefits. These include:
- Positive and fulfilling sexual relationships
- Satisfying sexual experiences
- Enhanced self-esteem
- Reduced risk of getting or spreading a sexually transmitted infection
- Reduced risk of an unplanned pregnancy
- Reduced risk of mental health problems related to sexual behaviour, such as excessive guilt, shame or anxiety
- Greater peace of mind
- Enhanced quality of life
The term “safer sex” is familiar to most people. However, if asked to list safer sex practices, many would be hard-pressed to come up with more than five. We have determined that there are at least 16 ways to reduce the chance of getting or spreading a sexually transmitted infection (STI). Getting an STI can negatively affect a person’s health, and change a person’s life. Protect your health by adopting safer sex practices.
- Enjoy solo activities
- Use a barrier (e.g. condom)
- Negotiate sexual activity with your partner(s)
- Properly disinfect shared sex toys
- Participate in activities where body fluids are not shared
- Avoid contact with another person’s sores
- Limit the number of sexual partners
- Share relevant information with each other about sexual history and STI status
- Avoid sex under the influence of an amount of alcohol or drugs that would interfere with decision-making or sticking with decisions you have made about sexual activity
- Get tested for STIs
- Get vaccinated against STIs
- Inform your previous partners if you discover you have an STI
- Treat an STI
- Become informed about healthy sexuality, safer sex and STIs
- Adopt positive attitudes towards safer sex
One of the most important things to know about sexually transmitted infections is that the use of safer sex practices greatly reduces the risk of getting and spreading them!
The term "sexually transmitted infections" (STI) refers to a varied group of infections that are transmitted from person to person through sexual contact. Another term used to refer to these infections is "sexually transmitted and blood-borne infections" (STBBI). This term also includes sharing blood (e.g. through sharing used needles) as a way of transmitting these infections (e.g. HIV/AIDS).
What Causes Sexually Transmitted Infections?
Several microorganisms are responsible for STIs. These include:
STIs caused by bacteria can be treated (cured) with antibiotics. However, a person who has been treated for a bacterial STI can become infected again if they come into contact with the bacteria again. There are 3 main STIs caused by bacteria:
There is no cure for STIs caused by a virus, with the exception of genital warts, which can be removed. However, you can be vaccinated for some viral STIs (e.g. genital warts, hepatitis B). There are medications that can help reduce the symptoms of some viral STIs (e.g. genital herpes), but they are not a cure. There are 4 main STIs caused by viruses:
- Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS), which is caused by the Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV)
- Genital warts, which is caused by the human papilloma virus (HPV)
- Hepatitis B
- Genital herpes
There are three main STIs caused by parasites.
What Are the Signs and Symptoms of a Sexually Transmitted Infection?
Often, an STI will have no noticeable symptoms. This is why it is always important to protect yourself. The signs and symptoms of a sexually transmitted infection are varied. They include:
- Discharge from urethra
- Abnormal discharge from vagina
- Itching in genital or anal area
- Burning on urination
- Lumps or growths in the genital or anal area
- Bleeding after sex or between periods
- Pain in the abdomen
- Pain in vulva or testicles
- Yellow tinge of skin or eyes
The Mayo clinic has quick list of Common STDs and Their Symptoms.
How do Sexually Transmitted Infections Spread?
Sexually transmitted infections spread when the micro-organism that causes it leaves an infected person and establishes itself within another person. This can happen during sexual activity that involves the penis, vagina, anus and mouth. It can also happen with simple skin to skin contact in the case of genital warts or genital herpes. Bacteria and virus can also be transmitted from one person to the next through sharing needles or sharing other objects (e.g. sex toys).
What are the Consequences of Getting a Sexually Transmitted Infections?
There are a wide range of consequences from getting an STI. Depending on the type of STI a person is infected with the consequences range from mild irritation, to sterility to death.
For more information
To learn more about sexually transmitted infections, consult Sex and U from the Society of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists of Canada.
The risk of becoming pregnant is a real one for women. It has been estimated that 60% of Canadian women will have at least one unplanned pregnancy in their lifetime.
In Canada, many contraceptive options are available to prevent an unplanned pregnancy. The Society of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists of Canada provides a good overview of contraceptive methods.
There are many factors to consider when choosing a form of contraception such as evaluating the advantages and disadvantages of the various methods and their effectiveness while taking into account lifestyle and personal factors (such as finances, collaboration from partner et.). The Method Match tool can help you filter your options according to criteria that are important to you to help you decide on a contraceptive method.
Book an appointment with a nurse to assess your contraception needs, learn about your contraception options, and in certain circumstances even get a prescription to start birth control without having to meet with a doctor.
- If you are doing your own research on the Internet make sure you know how to evaluate the reliability of information on the Internet
- How to effectively set, achieve and maintain your health goals
- Healthy sexuality resources
- 16 safer sex practices
- 10 steps to using a condom properly
- Guidelines for negotiating safer sex
- Talking about sex with your partner and How to talk to your partner about sexually transmitted diseases
- Painful sex
- What your penis can tell you about your health
- Why people have sex
- Human Rights Campaign "Resource Guide to Coming Out"
- Where to get condoms on campus - for FREE!!